Saturday, February 5, 2011

The Do’s & Don’ts of Love

We begin our search for love as teenagers and spend our lives looking for that perfect person to love and to love us back. We spend countless hours in bars, clubs, social gatherings and online trying to find someone that will catch our eye and spark that feeling in us. If finding love and the perfect mate is so important to us, then why when we find it, do we not value that special person we fell in love with? Then there are those who say, "I'm happy alone." Then why are they always on the search for someone to connect with physically or emotionally? It is part of human nature to seek someone to mate with and spend our life with. That is what separates us from animals. It is animalistic behavior to seek others solely to mate with or for just physical pleasure. When you do find that special person, do not be foolish and push them away. When two people are cohabitating together day in and day out, year after year there is going to be some difficulties. Many couples argue over nonsense things and nag one another. You should always pick your battles wisely and save the fight for something that is worth it.

The Do’s & Don’ts of Love


Don’t nag your partner
Don’t make a big deal out of nothing
Don’t criticize your mate
Don’t go to bed angry
Don’t take them for granted
Don’t ever degrade them in front of others or alone
Don’t betray their loyalty & trust
Don’t be selfish
Never, Never be afraid or too stubborn to apologize
Last but not least...... Don’t break their heart

Love them unconditionally
Think before your speak
Be loyal & trustworthy
Appreciate the small things they do for you
Something special for them to show your love
Tell them you love them everyday because you never know when it will be the last "I love you."
Be respectful of their feelings
Always make sure they know how you feel
Forgive them
Make decisions together
Always be committed to your partner & your relationship
Remember why you fell in love with them
Hold them near and dear in your heart & love them forever!


  1. Mrs E, Love this post and I think this is a wonderful life lesson. Thanks for participating in our Valentines blog party and I see you are on BlogFrog...will follow you there and here too.

  2. Thank you for the nice comment. I will be sure to follow back on Blog Frog too. Have a wonderful weekend!

  3. Hi.
    I'm stopping by via the Saturday hops to say hello. Stop on by if you are able to.
    Have a great Saturday!

  4. Hi! Thanks for following me...I'm returning the favor!
    Have a great weekend!

  5. Great post! Following you back :)

  6. Hello! I'm following you from the Lovey, Dovey, Valentine Hop!
    Denise Kline
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