Saturday, May 29, 2010

Steamy Summer Sex!

Summer can heat things up in more than one way. As the sunlight warms the sexual libido, men and woman become sexual beings in the summer making all the exposed skin and sun-kissed bodies irresistible. Sex can really heat up in the summer. Summer gives couples the opportunity to sneak away somewhere and explore their sexual fantasies. With all the skimpy summer clothes and thongs make for easy access to slip into a little fun just about anywhere anytime.

In the winter people tend to hibernate more, eat more and workout less, dragging them down making them feel more sluggish. In the summer, people start getting out more and start working out to get back in shape. As the lovers soak up the sun and get more exercise, their moods are lifted making them happier and increasing their sexual desire.

Couples take more vacations giving them the opportunity to relax, explore one another and explore the sexual ventures in a new environment. There is nothing better than some sweaty hot sex to heat things up. Don't miss out on the summer fun. Enjoy one another.

Friday, May 28, 2010

Happy Memorial Day Everyone!!!

I love the summer holidays and all the bbqs' with family and friends. It's a lot of work but worth every minute. I plan on kicking off summer with a big bash with a little bit of everything to bring smiles and laughter for everyone. There's nothing like spending time with family and friends for the holidays. I hope everyone enjoys their Memorial Day weekend!  Let's not forgot the real reason we all celebrate Memorial Day. I hope everyone has a fun and safe Memorial Day Weekend!!!!!!

Thursday, May 27, 2010


Vets are worse than doctors are. Whenever, you take your animal to the vet they come back in the room with a big long list of a whole bunch of crap your animal does not need. It is absolutely ridiculous that vets cost more than doctors for humans.

I called their office yesterday because my dog has another ear infection, they told me I could bring him in so they could look at his ears and they would give him a refill on antibiotics. Now keep in mind, he was just there a month ago and they ran all their little tests and it is the third time he has been there since February.

I think they made me sit there for an hour and half just to try and sucker me out of more money. The vet was a new vet there and needs to find another occupation.

First, he told me to put Max on the table. Max started freaking out and was trying to get down so I put him down. The Vet insisted he could not check his ears unless he was on the table. So, I put him back on the table and he started climbing all over me to get down and when the vet went to reach for him he nipped at him. He jumps back and says, "I don't trust this dog, he's aggressive." LOL Max aggressive, that's funny. Apparently, he needs to go back to school so he can learn that anytime you put a dog in a situation where they feel threatened or insecure they are going to protect themselves. He insisted Max be muzzled and he wanted to sedate him which I refused to allow him to do to check his ears. A complete stranger can walk up to Mr. Max and pet him and all he does is wag his tail. The joke about Max that anyone knows him says, If there was a burglar he would probably let him in.

Then he sends two of techs in the room with an estimate for $286.00 of crap the dog doesn't even need. Like cleaning his ears for $27.00, which I can do at home free and ear cleaner which I had already purchased from them the month before and told him I still have enough. I refused all the services except for the medication for his ears because all of that stuff had just been done and all I wanted was the medication for his ears and they act like I am a bad parent or something when the dog has been to the vet 3 times since February and has had all the tests the had on the paper done twice already. And they wander why so many people don't take their animals to the vet as often as they should. They make it almost impossible to afford. My dog has been to the vet more in the past year than my children have been to the pediatrician.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Some Of My Favorite Quotes About Finding Yourself

People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates. ~Thomas Szasz, "Personal Conduct," The Second Sin, 1973

There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anaïs Nin

If you don't get lost, there's a chance you may never be found. ~Author Unknown

It is only when we silent the blaring sounds of our daily existence that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us, as it stands knocking on the doorsteps of our hearts. ~K.T. Jong

And my favorite....

I believe everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn how to let go. Things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they are right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Stop To Smell The Roses

I’m sitting here watching My Sister’s Keeper. It’s a movie about a young girl was genetically engineered to be donate blood and bone marrow to her sister who is dying of cancer. This is my second time watching the movie. It is a must see movie, it makes you think about life. As I sit here and watch, her last wish was to go to the beach. It makes you think about how so many people take the small things in life for granted. Can you imagine being a young girl dying of cancer? There is nothing to look forward to in the future. We take for granted all the small things in life that we do get a chance to do that others don’t. Like walking on the beach and spending time with family and friends. I think I enjoy this movie so much because in February of 2007, I was diagnosed Chronic Lymphocyte Leukemia. I was told, I could have between five to fifteen years to live. It would all depend on how fast the CLL progressed. Overtime the CLL cells replace the normal lymphocyte cells in the marrow and lymph nodes making it difficult for your body to fight off infections. It was a horrifying thought to me. My children were only 6, 7 and 15. The only thing I could think of was there was the possibility I would never get the opportunity to see my children grow up, graduate from high school and from college. I would never get the opportunity to see them get married or even see my grandchildren and watch them grow. That same year in late September, my CLL went into remission. That nightI took my children and a friend out to dinner to celebrate. I let them order whatever they wanted for dinner and order the biggest dessert on the menu. I was given a second chance at life. I have been in remission ever since and I am so grateful for the opportunity to watch my children grow. Everyone should take a moment and think, how they would feel if they didn’t get another chance to spend another day with the ones they love? What would you do if it were your last day on earth? Any one of us could die tomorrow. We could get into an accident, die in a plane crash, have a heart attack, and so on. Do you want to be laying there wishing you had done things differently? We value having a big house, driving a nice car, dressing our best, etc. We go to work every day for all the materialistic items in our lives. How often do we actually sit down and think about the ones we love? How often do we make it important to spend time with the ones we love? When your day does come, do you want to be laying there wishing you spent more time with the ones you love or about that vacation you never took with your children or spouse, thinking about all of your children’s sporting events or recitals you missed? All the time you have lost with your loved ones is gone and they are gone forever. Don’t waste your life on all the superficial things in life. They are what they are, superficial things that have no real meaning. Spend your life on the one’s who mean the most to you.

A Perfect Summer Day!

It couldn't be a more perfect Sunday. Dinner with the family and friends in the backyard, the kids playing in the sprinkler and then making smores in the firepit with the kids later. I am ready to kick off the summer fun!

You Learn Something New Everyday.

I found it amusing this morning when I opened my internet explorer and there was the question “what was the origin of "liar, liar, pants on fire?" I recently named my blog after the childhood saying to add a little humor to the blog and because of the references towards adults displaying childlike behavior. The origin of "Liar, liar, pants on fire" actually comes from a poem by William Blake called "The Liar."

Deceiver, dissembler
Your trousers are alight
From what pole or gallows
Shall they dangle in the night?

When I asked of your career
Why did you have to kick my rear
With that stinking lie of thine
Proclaiming that you owned a mine?

When you asked to borrow my stallion
To visit a nearby-moored galleon
How could I ever know that you
Intended only to turn him into glue?

What red devil of mendacity
Grips your soul with such tenacity?
Will one you cruelly shower with lies
Put a pistol ball between your eyes?

What infernal serpent
Has lent you his forked tongue?
From what pit of foul deceit
Are all these whoppers sprung?

Deceiver, dissembler
Your trousers are alight
From what pole or gallows
Do they dangle in the night?

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Sometimes Nothing Says It Better Than Music

Me, Myself And I

There are many points in our life in which we are standing at the crossroads of our lives, standing there waiting to see which path our lives will take. Sometimes, the hardest times are when your standing in the center trying to decide the path you will choose. When it comes down to it, all I have is me, myself and I. It's up to me to stand up for myself and do what is in the best interest of myself and my family. No one will do it but me. It is up to me to stand up for myself and I am strong enough to do it. I won't allow anyone to walk on me. Because, at the end of the day, I know I won't let myself down.

Friday, May 21, 2010

Characteristics Of A Physical Abuse & Abusers

Characteristics of phyical abuse may include the following:

-pulling hair
-using weapons
-forcing sexual intercourse and/ or engaging in violent intercourse

Characteristics of emotional abuse:

-name calling
-playing mind games to confuse the victim
-making false accusations
-false accusations
-making one feel guilty or humiliated (spitting at or degrading another human being)
-use of intimidation
-use of male privilege
-threatening another with physical harm
-raising their hand as though they are about to slap or hit the victim

A physical abuser will minimize or deny the abuse, including making light of the situation, say the abuse never occurred or they may blame the victim. Physical abusers often have the desire to have power over others, lack empathy for those they abuse and they focus on having their own selfish needs met at the expense of others.

If you have been a victim of Domestic Violence, contact the police department immediately by dialing 9-1-1.  You can also contact your local YMCA 24 hours a day.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

A Word About My Blog

You may be noticing a certain pattern in the topic of my blogs. There is a good reason for that, and no, I am not a bitter person. Maybe a little aggravated, but not bitter. I am enjoying every minute of my life and feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I finally feel free to live and be happy again. It is now time to get back to things that matter most in my life. The point of writing a blog is to expresses your feelings and thoughts freely and that is what I intend on doing. My blog is about my life and my opinion on society. Like the warning says, the blog does reflect the opinion of the writer and if you are offended by the content then do yourself a favor and simply do not read my blog. The content of my blog follows all the guidelines of Google blogs. Names and references to a particular person or persons are only mentioned in current events blogs.  I would also like to thank my loyal readers.  It's nice to know someone is listening.

With Love,


Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Liar, Liar.... Pants On Fire

There is one thing that really bothers me, it's when someone knows they have done something wrong, but will tell every lie possible to cover up what they have done. If you know, you have done something then, admit what you did, apologize and quietly back away without trying to take revenge on the other person you are trying to keep the truth from. If you know you have done wrong then why try to hide it? When you reach adulthood, you should be able to take responsibility for what you have done. All the lies you tell to cover up your misgivings only makes you look like a fool. It is like when a little kid is caught with their hand in the cookie jar, they make up lies or excuses for what they have done. Such as, an imaginary friend ate all the cookies. Did the imaginary friend really eat all the cookies or did you eat all the cookies? Do the lies and excuses really change what you have done? No, they don't. At some point in your life, you have to be adult enough to realize, lies do not change your actions. The actions still occurred even though you told lies to cover them. The lies don't make your actions go away. Don't forget, someone always knows the truth, therefore even though you told a lie to cover what you did. There will always be someone who knows what you did. One thing I was taught growing up is to be accountable for your own behavior and own up to your actions. You always have a choice to make whether or you realize it or not. You have the choice to do it or to not do it. That is something I try to pass along to my children. Apparently, not everyone was taught the same or we would not have the problems we have in society today or the prison system. Then there are the ones who repeatedly do the same things over and over again even though they know what they are doing is wrong but continue to do the same things regardless of the harm it may have on another person's life, then make up lies to cover their own actions. Yes, I am talking about adults here, it almost sounds like I am talking about children who do not know the difference between right and wrong.

What really kills me is when someone does something that does have a direct effect on you but claims what they do is none of your business. For example, when someone persistently has affairs that does have a direct effect on their partner. First, when you have broken your marriage vows that has a direct effect on your partner. Your vows are between you and your partner, therefore it is their business. When you are having repeated affairs, you are putting your partner's health at risk. They can be passed STD's, serious life threatening illnesses like AIDS or permanent STD's that will stay with them the rest of their life. I would say that is your partner's business. Their personal health is their business and no one else has the right to violate that right or put their health at risk to have a little fun.

A married couples personal finances is both partners business. One partner does not have the right to take money from their spouse to pay something their spouse does not feel their money should go to. Especially, when the expense is not related to running their household.

Another example, when one partner becomes physically abusive towards another that is a direct violation of their rights. No one person should ever be subjected to bodily harm from his or her spouse. These are all very serious violations of another person's rights and yes, it makes everyone of them their business. If you are not going to make a commitment then don’t make promises you have no intention on keeping and DON’T GET MARRIED!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Keeping My Fingers Crossed.

I had my final interview, I am feeling really positive about the interview. Everyone was very friendly and nice. I should hear something today or tomorrow. I can't wait to see what the future holds for me. This will finally be my opportunity to do what I love and go to work everyday an have a passion for what I do instead of just working for a paycheck.  All those years of education is finally about to payoff.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Delete, Delete, Delete......

It's not as easy as at used to be to wipe someone from your life. You used to be able just throw away their number and pictures.  Now you have to throw away their pics, delete them from your cell, your email, social networking pages, delete the pics and music in the computer, and so on. There's a lot more work to erasing someone from your life now a days.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Finding Myself Again

I am feeling absolutely wonderful and positive. I never thought I would feel this good so soon. I think the last two and half years were the most difficult years of my life. Things happen for a reason and I am looking at this as an opportunity to correct the mistakes I have made. I was crushed when I lost the babies, but now I am relieved. I look at the loss as God was watching over me and taking care of me. It was never meant to be. At the time I was going thru all the miscarriages and the troubles in my marriage I didn't understand why I couldn't have a happy life. I wanted so badly to have the happy marriage and a beautiful little baby to make everything complete. As I look back, I realize I was trying to have a baby for all the wrong reasons. I wasn't trying to have a baby for me, that's not really what I wanted. I was trying to have a baby to make him happy. All the time, I was lighting my candles and praying to God to watch over me and my family, to give him strength and to help us with our troubles. I didn't understand then, but I understand now. God was watching over me. For me a family is about unconditional love, honesty, trust and to never let down the ones you love. For him it was about the picture you paint, a pretty picture without any real meaning. We were objects instead of people. To me life is about what you accomplish and the mark you leave in life and on others. I tried so hard to make things right. I just thought if I made him happy and showed him I would do almost anything to make him happy, he would change. I realize now, no matter what I did, it would never change who he is. He would never give me the love, respect and commitment that I deserve. Maybe I just look at life differently than others. A few years back, I was given 10-15 years to live, I was given a second chance, I swore that day I would never take my life for granted or the people in my life for granted. I swore I would value and cherish every moment I had to spend with the ones I love. I don't want my children growing up in a home where there is fighting and abuse. I want my children to be able to look back on their childhood memories as happy ones. You have to value your life and the lives of people in your life and hold them near and dear in your heart. Life is short and you never know when it will be over. I don't want to be one of those people laying in their death bed regretting all the mistakes they have made in their life. I tell the people in my life, I love them any chance I get because you never know if it will be your last time. I got a little lost along the way, my life wasn't supposed to be about trying to keep him happy. I know I did everything I could to try to make him happy, but no matter what I did he would never be committed to me or our marriage. My life is supposed to be about making myself happy, my children happy and the ones who love me happy. Saying "I love you" and loving someone are two different things. Saying "I love you" are just words and without the love behind the words make them meaningless.

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