Friday, February 11, 2011

Are Things Heating Up Yet?

I am bringing the Valentines Day Series to a close. Most of us will be celebrating Valentines Day this weekend and I hope everyone has a wonderful Valentines Day. Hopefully, the Valentines Day Series gave you some useful tips you can use. When I studied for my degree in Family Life Education, I learned that having a happy family starts with a happy couple as the foundation and the happiness of the family unit depends on the happiness of the couple. If a married couple is not happy in their relationship it trickles down onto their children. Children can see when their parents are unhappy and they learn from the example we set. So, set a good example for your children, work on your relationship and achieve a happy marriage. Do it for yourselves and your children. Because the relationship of the couple is the glue to the family unit. Learn to appreciate your partner all year round, not just on Valentines Day. I love Valentines day just as much as the next, but I would prefer to be happy all year round. We all can't be perfect in our relationships and the sooner we realize our partner is human too, the sooner we will learn to let go of any anger or frustration you may be holding for your partner that may be affecting your relationship. Just remember not only to love, but to love hard.

Bring A Little Excitement To Your Sex Life

Is your sex life getting stale? Try making love in a new and exciting place. Just make sure you aren't going to get caught with your pants down or on camera. Don't limit your lovemaking to the bedroom.

How about....

A nice hot shower together. There are aids online or in the adult stores to make love making easier and  safer in the shower.

Initiating another room in the house. Of course, when your home alone to avoid any embarrassing moments.

Set up a secret meeting place to cook up some hot & steamy sex in a public place.

A hotel room

Look up some new positions online. Karma Sutra is a good place to start. Don't go for the hard stuff right away. Ease your way into it. They give you details on the how to perform the position. Don't limit yourselves to the same positions all the time. Even if you don't master the position, it will be fun trying.

Watch a good porn flick together. By the end of the movie, you will be making love. Choose one together, so you both will be comfortable with the content.

Try some role playing.

Surprise him by playing the damsel in distress & then seduce him.

Enjoy your lovemaking adventures, my friends and have a wonderful Valentines Day!

I have a few posts on The Comfort Zone- Bringing The Love Back you might be interested in reading.

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