I would have to call this one a "RANT"

Because of a certain someone who is not willing to admit to what they have done and just leave things alone, I have to miss my son's 5th grade graduation. They only graduate from the 5th grade once and while my son is graduating from the 5th grade, I am going to be standing in a courtroom. To him this is a big milestone in his life; he will be moving on to middle school. Some people who do not have children don't seem to understand the importance of having your mother at graduation, sporting events and etc. I don't even know how to explain why I won’t be able to make it to his graduation, he almost cried when I told him I wouldn't be able to make it. He thinks he is going to be the only one without his mother there. When someone has done enough damage to another person's life, they should man up and accept responsibility for the things they have done without trying to make the situation worse or more complicated for the one they have hurt. If you know what you have done, then quit trying to play innocent.

Steamy Summer Sex!

Summer can heat things up in more than one way. As the sunlight warms the sexual libido, men and woman become sexual beings in the summer making all the exposed skin and sun-kissed bodies irresistible. Sex can really heat up in the summer. Summer gives couples the opportunity to sneak away somewhere and explore their sexual fantasies. With all the skimpy summer clothes and thongs make for easy access to slip into a little fun just about anywhere anytime.


In the winter people tend to hibernate more, eat more and workout less, dragging them down making them feel more sluggish. In the summer, people start getting out more and start working out to get back in shape. As the lovers soak up the sun and get more exercise, their moods are lifted making them happier and increasing their sexual desire.

Couples take more vacations giving them the opportunity to relax, explore one another and explore the sexual ventures in a new environment. There is nothing better than some sweaty hot sex to heat things up. Don't miss out on the summer fun. Enjoy one another.

Happy Memorial Day Everyone!!!

I love the summer holidays and all the bbqs' with family and friends. It's a lot of work but worth every minute. I plan on kicking off summer with a big bash with a little bit of everything to bring smiles and laughter for everyone. There's nothing like spending time with family and friends for the holidays. I hope everyone enjoys their Memorial Day weekend!  Let's not forgot the real reason we all celebrate Memorial Day. I hope everyone has a fun and safe Memorial Day Weekend!!!!!!

Vets

Vets are worse than doctors are. Whenever, you take your animal to the vet they come back in the room with a big long list of a whole bunch of crap your animal does not need. It is absolutely ridiculous that vets cost more than doctors for humans.

I called their office yesterday because my dog has another ear infection, they told me I could bring him in so they could look at his ears and they would give him a refill on antibiotics. Now keep in mind, he was just there a month ago and they ran all their little tests and it is the third time he has been there since February.

I think they made me sit there for an hour and half just to try and sucker me out of more money. The vet was a new vet there and needs to find another occupation.

First, he told me to put Max on the table. Max started freaking out and was trying to get down so I put him down. The Vet insisted he could not check his ears unless he was on the table. So, I put him back on the table and he started climbing all over me to get down and when the vet went to reach for him he nipped at him. He jumps back and says, "I don't trust this dog, he's aggressive." LOL Max aggressive, that's funny. Apparently, he needs to go back to school so he can learn that anytime you put a dog in a situation where they feel threatened or insecure they are going to protect themselves. He insisted Max be muzzled and he wanted to sedate him which I refused to allow him to do to check his ears. A complete stranger can walk up to Mr. Max and pet him and all he does is wag his tail. The joke about Max that anyone knows him says, If there was a burglar he would probably let him in.

Then he sends two of techs in the room with an estimate for $286.00 of crap the dog doesn't even need. Like cleaning his ears for $27.00, which I can do at home free and ear cleaner which I had already purchased from them the month before and told him I still have enough. I refused all the services except for the medication for his ears because all of that stuff had just been done and all I wanted was the medication for his ears and they act like I am a bad parent or something when the dog has been to the vet 3 times since February and has had all the tests the had on the paper done twice already. And they wander why so many people don't take their animals to the vet as often as they should. They make it almost impossible to afford. My dog has been to the vet more in the past year than my children have been to the pediatrician.

Some Of My Favorite Quotes About Finding Yourself

People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates. ~Thomas Szasz, "Personal Conduct," The Second Sin, 1973


There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anaïs Nin


If you don't get lost, there's a chance you may never be found. ~Author Unknown


It is only when we silent the blaring sounds of our daily existence that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us, as it stands knocking on the doorsteps of our hearts. ~K.T. Jong


And my favorite....


I believe everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn how to let go. Things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they are right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

Stop To Smell The Roses

I’m sitting here watching My Sister’s Keeper. It’s a movie about a young girl was genetically engineered to be donate blood and bone marrow to her sister who is dying of cancer. This is my second time watching the movie. It is a must see movie, it makes you think about life. As I sit here and watch, her last wish was to go to the beach. It makes you think about how so many people take the small things in life for granted. Can you imagine being a young girl dying of cancer? There is nothing to look forward to in the future. We take for granted all the small things in life that we do get a chance to do that others don’t. Like walking on the beach and spending time with family and friends. I think I enjoy this movie so much because in February of 2007, I was diagnosed Chronic Lymphocyte Leukemia. I was told, I could have between five to fifteen years to live. It would all depend on how fast the CLL progressed. Overtime the CLL cells replace the normal lymphocyte cells in the marrow and lymph nodes making it difficult for your body to fight off infections. It was a horrifying thought to me. My children were only 6, 7 and 15. The only thing I could think of was there was the possibility I would never get the opportunity to see my children grow up, graduate from high school and from college. I would never get the opportunity to see them get married or even see my grandchildren and watch them grow. That same year in late September, my CLL went into remission. That nightI took my children and a friend out to dinner to celebrate. I let them order whatever they wanted for dinner and order the biggest dessert on the menu. I was given a second chance at life. I have been in remission ever since and I am so grateful for the opportunity to watch my children grow. Everyone should take a moment and think, how they would feel if they didn’t get another chance to spend another day with the ones they love? What would you do if it were your last day on earth? Any one of us could die tomorrow. We could get into an accident, die in a plane crash, have a heart attack, and so on. Do you want to be laying there wishing you had done things differently? We value having a big house, driving a nice car, dressing our best, etc. We go to work every day for all the materialistic items in our lives. How often do we actually sit down and think about the ones we love? How often do we make it important to spend time with the ones we love? When your day does come, do you want to be laying there wishing you spent more time with the ones you love or about that vacation you never took with your children or spouse, thinking about all of your children’s sporting events or recitals you missed? All the time you have lost with your loved ones is gone and they are gone forever. Don’t waste your life on all the superficial things in life. They are what they are, superficial things that have no real meaning. Spend your life on the one’s who mean the most to you.

A Perfect Summer Day!

It couldn't be a more perfect Sunday. Dinner with the family and friends in the backyard, the kids playing in the sprinkler and then making smores in the firepit with the kids later. I am ready to kick off the summer fun!