Happy Valentines Day

Snowflake Kisses

Snowflake Kisses

© Angela M. Torrence

Upon the earth the snow kisses

Glittering flakes drop as the ice glistens

My soul has awaken and now my heart listens

In my mind your voice whispers

When I close my eyes at night I dream of you

When I awake to the morning dew I think of you

Somehow I feel in your arms is where I belong

I've waited for someone like you for so long

Now my heart beats with a happy rhyme

Couldn't have asked for a better Valentine



Happy Valentines Day, Sweetie. I love you!

Are Things Heating Up Yet?

I am bringing the Valentines Day Series to a close. Most of us will be celebrating Valentines Day this weekend and I hope everyone has a wonderful Valentines Day. Hopefully, the Valentines Day Series gave you some useful tips you can use. When I studied for my degree in Family Life Education, I learned that having a happy family starts with a happy couple as the foundation and the happiness of the family unit depends on the happiness of the couple. If a married couple is not happy in their relationship it trickles down onto their children. Children can see when their parents are unhappy and they learn from the example we set. So, set a good example for your children, work on your relationship and achieve a happy marriage. Do it for yourselves and your children. Because the relationship of the couple is the glue to the family unit. Learn to appreciate your partner all year round, not just on Valentines Day. I love Valentines day just as much as the next, but I would prefer to be happy all year round. We all can't be perfect in our relationships and the sooner we realize our partner is human too, the sooner we will learn to let go of any anger or frustration you may be holding for your partner that may be affecting your relationship. Just remember not only to love, but to love hard.



Bring A Little Excitement To Your Sex Life

Is your sex life getting stale? Try making love in a new and exciting place. Just make sure you aren't going to get caught with your pants down or on camera. Don't limit your lovemaking to the bedroom.

How about....


A nice hot shower together. There are aids online or in the adult stores to make love making easier and  safer in the shower.

Initiating another room in the house. Of course, when your home alone to avoid any embarrassing moments.

Set up a secret meeting place to cook up some hot & steamy sex in a public place.

A hotel room

Look up some new positions online. Karma Sutra is a good place to start. Don't go for the hard stuff right away. Ease your way into it. They give you details on the how to perform the position. Don't limit yourselves to the same positions all the time. Even if you don't master the position, it will be fun trying.

Watch a good porn flick together. By the end of the movie, you will be making love. Choose one together, so you both will be comfortable with the content.

Try some role playing.

Surprise him by playing the damsel in distress & then seduce him.

Enjoy your lovemaking adventures, my friends and have a wonderful Valentines Day!

I have a few posts on The Comfort Zone- Bringing The Love Back you might be interested in reading.

The Do’s & Don’ts of Love

We begin our search for love as teenagers and spend our lives looking for that perfect person to love and to love us back. We spend countless hours in bars, clubs, social gatherings and online trying to find someone that will catch our eye and spark that feeling in us. If finding love and the perfect mate is so important to us, then why when we find it, do we not value that special person we fell in love with? Then there are those who say, "I'm happy alone." Then why are they always on the search for someone to connect with physically or emotionally? It is part of human nature to seek someone to mate with and spend our life with. That is what separates us from animals. It is animalistic behavior to seek others solely to mate with or for just physical pleasure. When you do find that special person, do not be foolish and push them away. When two people are cohabitating together day in and day out, year after year there is going to be some difficulties. Many couples argue over nonsense things and nag one another. You should always pick your battles wisely and save the fight for something that is worth it.


The Do’s & Don’ts of Love

Don’t

Don’t nag your partner
Don’t make a big deal out of nothing
Don’t criticize your mate
Don’t go to bed angry
Don’t take them for granted
Don’t ever degrade them in front of others or alone
Don’t betray their loyalty & trust
Don’t be selfish
Never, Never be afraid or too stubborn to apologize
Last but not least...... Don’t break their heart

Do
Love them unconditionally
Think before your speak
Be loyal & trustworthy
Appreciate the small things they do for you
Something special for them to show your love
Tell them you love them everyday because you never know when it will be the last "I love you."
Be respectful of their feelings
Always make sure they know how you feel
Forgive them
Make decisions together
Always be committed to your partner & your relationship
Remember why you fell in love with them
Hold them near and dear in your heart & love them forever!